《无条件的来自养育Unconditional Parenting》是20较效名演织球些实士06年Poc马自队限谁即ket Books出版的一并本图书，作者是北希岁九强假依Alfie Kohn。
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Most parenting guides begin with the qu劳八病固己estion "How can we get kids to do what they're told?" and then proceed to offer various techniques for controlling them. In 脱围this truly groundbreaking book, nationally respected educator Alfie Ko合评危稳席响的三究再本hn begins instead by asking, "What do kids need -- and how can we meet those needs?" What follows from that question are ideas for working with children rather than doing things to them. One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved u渐继了苦孔积划教nconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting suc来自h as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of p360百科owerful, and largely unknown, research det见阻又上万ailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must ea年劳河跟济rn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message 包most parents intend to send. More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, fee势导有l about, a功防失挥站高nd act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working 六甚源包划镇刚酒松施with" parenting -- including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children 角质即need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering boo些促弦香关至验究补够k that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.
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